What's So Good About Being Laid Off?
by Rick Brenner
Layoffs during the holiday period of November 15 through January 15 are far more common than you might think. Losing your job, or fearing that you might, is always difficult, but at this time of year it's especially helpful to keep in mind that the experience does have a bright side.
When bad things happen, we tend to forget to look for the bright side. One technique for finding new perspectives is reframing. In reframing bad news, you try to find alternate ways to view what has happened so as to bring out the good.
Take being laid off. We often see only the dark side, especially during the holidays. Not minimizing the dark side, here are some reasons to be thankful when you get a layoff notice.
- Don't have to worry about being laid off anymore
- Looking for a new job is a full-time job — it's easier to find time for it now
- Every day is casual day — not just business casual — really casual.
- Collect unemployment without guilt
- Run errands when there's no traffic on the roads
- No longer have to deal with your old boss
- No time sheets
- One good thing about
being laid off: you no longer
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- Home at a decent hour all the time every time
- Don't have to listen to traffic reports
- Traffic reports now seem hysterically funny
- Gives you the insight you need to support friends in the same spot in the future
- Lower income taxes
- All your books are now in the same place
- No more email from Security about new parking restrictions
- Eating much less takeout
- Cooking real food, then eating it sitting down
- Afternoon movies
- New job bound to be better than old job
- More time with the kids
- Reading for fun
- Sitting down to dinner as a family much more often
- Dry cleaning bills zeroed out
- Got accrued vacation in cash
- No longer have to deal with survivor guilt
- Don't have to wear a badge any more
- Can use the health club in mid-afternoon when there are no lines
- Can actually use the health club
Get to the produce department before the produce gets picked over
No more cellular leash
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Finally see the Grand Canyon
No more bags of liquefied lettuce in fridge because of unanticipated three-week trips to the Far East
Network for yourself instead of your employer
Can always use the same bathroom
No traveling to exotic places and seeing nothing but the hotel
Catch up with friends
Browse in bookstores
Biking, hiking, skiing, snowshoeing, climbing
No more working dinners at 9pm
Save big bucks on day care
No worries about what to do with the kids on snow days
Less wear and tear on expensive clothes
Low-mileage discount on car insurance
Jacqueline Suzanne and PDQ Bach
While sending out resumes, get interrupted by your four-year-old with urgent drawing of moon
Rediscover your spouse
Two words: the package
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