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Ten Tactics for Tough Times:
Part II

by Rick Brenner

When you find yourself in a tough spot politically, what can you do? Most of us obsess about the situation for a while, and then if we still have time to act, we do what seems best. Here's Part II of a set of approaches that can organize your thinking and shorten the obsessing.

Workplace politics is an amorphous mystery to many of us, in part because we lack some simple tools. Here's Part II of a little catalog of ten widely applicable tactics. See "Ten Tactics for Tough Times: Part I," Point Lookout for February 1, 2006, for more. A toolbox

Am I solving the right problem?
Even if you solve the problem, your solution might not be useful unless you solve the right problem.
A risk of this tactic is inappropriately assuming responsibility for problem definition. Focus only on the portion of the problem definition space that truly is yours.
What's the smallest piece I can usefully address?
Often what looks unitary from afar is actually composite close up. Once you get into it, you can clearly see its separate parts.
When you can finally discern the pieces, focus on the easy parts. If one of them feels like a good fit, go for it. Often what looks
unitary from afar
is actually composite
close up
Can I get help?
Asking for help can be difficult if we feel that asking for help is a sign of weakness. Some like the feeling of independence that comes with control, even if that sense of control is an illusion. See "Are You Taking on the Full Load?," Point Lookout for February 6, 2002, and "Heavy Burdens: Should, Always, Must and Never," Point Lookout for February 27, 2002, for more.
When ownership of a problem is joint with others, all owners must work together. And even when you own the problem fully, addressing it might be beyond your capability. Ask for help when you need it.
What kind of help would help?
Difficult problems are difficult, in part, because the tools we do know about haven't worked. And when we don't know about something we need, it's hard to ask for it.
When you feel lost, ask someone what kind of help would help. Check in with a mentor, a coach, a colleague or a friend.
Can I confront?
If the problem results from the actions of another, we sometimes feel the urge to escalate, to force our partners to change what they're doing. Escalation is dangerous because it might harm relationships.
Here are two alternatives. First, tell your partner what you want. Explain first what problems you face that might be visible only to you. Alternatively, and even less confrontational — ask for what you want. One possible risk of these tactics: they reveal that you know what's happening, and this knowledge might be used against you.
What do I already know?
Remembering what you already know is perhaps your most important tool. Sadly, under stress, remembering anything can be very difficult.
I remind myself by breathing. It slows me down and clears my mind, probably because oxygen is an aid to clear thinking.

Some of these ten tactics might fit for you. Some might not. Some might almost fit. Select, adjust, and add your own. Go to top  Top  Next issue: Nepotism, Patronage, Vendettas and Workplace Espionage  Next Issue
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